Myself : It is so hard to make a great success and then go to a lower success and leave your place for a one who deserved it ...you r a good person so you say "he did his best and i am happy for him" but never forget the fact that you r still a human being .. you must be saying :"if only i hadn't ......... if only .... if only ..... this place is mine ..." and you must be crying from inside because the one who tasted the sweetest honey can never say about a good cake "it is delicious" !!! he now knows the best taste .. so he is never satisfied with any other one !!
so tell me what can i do .. this bad mood i am now in will not save me or make me better .. tell me what can i do ?!? :'(
Me: Let me tell you .. you now hold huge packages of experience .. you saw yourself making mistakes and you watched how this mistakes made your results much less than the one you worked for !!
You now know the faults .. the ways to fix them all .. you now know your true companion that never leaves you .. the one who knows everything about you .. the one who is always there for you .. YOUR ONLY ONE .. ALLAH .. hold his principles and orders with hands of steel .. he is the only one who can make you reach there .. within few days you will be back to your world again .. you have to be prepared .. or you will perform the same way you did before...!!
Myself : I am somehow afraid and so sad .. much depressed.
Me: Ok. And then what ?! sad and afraid, and what is new about that ?? you experienced them before, and they brought you back and back, Learn from your mistakes and never lose hope .. as long as you have a certain wish .. work for it and Allah will be always by your side.
Last, Mostafa I will tell you something:
“Failure is the main ingredient in the recipe for success
A leader must understand that in order to achieve any measurable level of success, failure is necessary”. Albert Einstein said, “Insanity consists of doing the same thing over and over and hoping for different results.” One of the most valuable traits one can have as a leader is the ability to closely observe his or her mistakes and learn the lessons that create positive changes so that the next set of challenges presented will result in different outcomes....Failure should not be seen as an unsuccessful attempt; rather, it can be viewed as a yet-unattained goal or as simply one more step toward eventual success. Leaders can truly embrace their fullest potential by actively embracing failure as the most important ingredient in the recipe for success.
The past can be a validated, comfortable place to hide, but it can also serve as a roadblock to innovation and growth instead of a bridge to a brighter, more prosperous future. Failure is temporary; success is long term. Great Leaders should not shut the door on their failures nor obsess over them endlessly. Instead, they need to use them as a tool with formidable force, as failures are the greatest teaching tool in existence. Observe their failures and analyze them, understanding they are not identified by their mistakes. One can overcome a great deal of fear-based thinking by understanding that we all fail and we all can go on to achieve great success from that failure.”
I was listening to this conversation .. thanks God for having such friends !
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